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Parent’s Guide To Safety Seats For Children

2017-03-15 by • Parenting • Tags: , , , , •

Your child’s first adventure

It’s time to strap your newborn into the car and go off on their first adventure, to the shop, to a friend or somewhere more exotic maybe. Think safety first!

Infant Seats

An infant seat is slightly different to an “infant safety seat” or “child safety seat” for cars. A typical infant seats allows a young baby to sit upright. It’s important to note that, these aren’t designed to protect the infant in untimely event of a collision so they shouldn’t ever be used as a substitute for a car seat!

Although, some of the child safety seats on the market, do also serve as an infant seat.

What to look out for:

The base of the infant seat is supposed to be wider than the actual seat. Any mechanisms for locking should be securely in place. Give a little push down on the seat to ensure that it’s sturdy.

To prevent any movement of the seat on smooth surfaces, the bases should be a non skid surface.

Obviously, any seat belt need to be secure and any fabric needs to be washable.

If there are supporting devices which snap onto the seat’s backing, then make sure that they’re secure enough to avoid them popping out, causing a collapse of the seat.

Safety points:

  • Never, ever put your infant in a seat on top of a table or any other high surface from which they could fall from! Also, don’t put them on top of a washing for example.
  • Fasten the safety belt each time you put your infant into the seat.

Child safety seats for cars

Did you know that there are more children seriously or fatally injured in auto accidents than all other types of accidents? Avoid this catastrophe by getting the correct child safety seat for protection, while traveling in your car.

As mentioned above, don’t ever substitute any infant seat for a actual child safety car seat! A child safety seat is designed to be installed in the back seat and protect the child from injuries in the event of a collision.

What to look out for:

Never buy or accept a seat that’s older than 6 years old or one that looks like it was in a crash before!

Also, check the manufacturer’s “expiry date”. If doubt about the history of the seat, or if it’s looking cracked or showing any wear and tear signs, please don’t use it.

And finally, ensure that it fits your child.

Safety points:

  • It’s recommended to have infants and toddlers under two years old, in a seat facing the rear in the back of the car. (or reach height and weight limits set out by the manufacturer)
  • As soon as your children are ready to move into a seat facing forward, harnessing them in until they are of the maximum height and/or weight for the seat is advisable. As soon as they outgrow this seat, they should be in a booster type of seat until they can safely use the standard car’s safety belt.

Things to remember

Make sure you are not confusing an infant seat with a child safety seat for a car.

Measure your child’s height and weight as they grow up, you may need a bigger seat (booster).

Ensure the seats are fastened in place securely before using.

baby feet

First Time Parent? Here’s Some Tips!

2017-03-05 by • Parenting • Tags: , , •

So you are on your journey to bringing a new being into this world and it all seems a little daunting? 

The nine months of pregnancy is nearly over and it’s almost time to pop! In a few days time, you will have been through the labor and delivered your new child into the amazing world outside of the womb. All going to plan you will be set to go home soon and start the next chapter of your life. Don’t panic!

This is usually the time when most new parents are feeling a bit lost or confused, adapting to their new life as a parent and that is perfectly normal as it is a big life change.

There are a few ways to deal with any apprehension or nerves you might be noticing as a first time parent, so if you follow these tips below you will be feeling more confident and positive in your new role as a parent.

Don’t be afraid to seek help after your baby is born

When your new baby is born, it can feel a little hectic and tiresome at times. But you should be open to asking for help. Feel free to ask the experts and mid wives in hospital while you’re there.

Often, hospitals will have specialists for feeding or perhaps consultants who focus on lactation who will be in a position to advise you with the basics of nursing your newborn and/or bottle-feeding. The nurses are there to help you with any questions you might have regarding to burping, holding, changing soiled nappies, and the general care of your new baby.

Friends and relatives

In addition to the medical professionals, your friends and relatives will often be more than willing to help you out so don’t be afraid to ask them or allow them to if they are forthcoming. While you may disagree on certain aspects of new-born parenting, remember that these may have been in your shoes before so don’t fully dismiss their own experience.

Handle with care

Just some of the basics to note:

Washing your hands thoroughly with soap and water or alternatively using a hand sanitizer prior to handling your newborn is important. Because newborns have yet to build up strength in their immune system, they are prone to infections. Also try to make sure that anyone who might handle your baby cleans their hands beforehand.

Head and neck: Be sure to cradle your baby’s head if carrying him/her and support their head if carrying them upright and also when laying them down.

Never shake your newborn baby! Whether it is just playing or in your own frustration, vigorous shaking can cause the baby’s brain to bleed and has known to even cause death! To wake your baby, don’t shake. Maybe tickle their feet or a gentle blow on the side of their should do the trick.

Ensure that your newborn is fastened into the stroller, carrier or your car seat securely. Try to keep any activity that may be too bouncy or rough to a minimum.

Remember: Your baby isn’t ready yet for any rough playing, such as knee jiggles or being lightly thrown up into the air! If you mange to take on board these tips you’ll on your way to a smooth transition to motherhood.

child & dentist

Braces. Giving Your Kids The Perfect Smile

2017-02-21 by • Parenting • Tags: , , , •

Braces are a great investment early on in your child’s life

Some children look forward to getting braces, as they see them as a milestone closer to those teenage years Others, however, worry that they might look different from the other children and therefore be a victim of bullying, for being “different”.

Whichever way your own child is feeling about the prospect of braces, you may have some queries and concerns about braces yourself. Here are some things to consider before going for braces:

Why do children need braces?

For a number of reasons, children require braces. Overlapping or crooked teeth, too many teeth, or simply a”bad bite” are all common reasons why a child might need them. A malocclusion is the medical/dental term for a difference between the size of both top and bottom jaws, which causes a bad bite. If the upper jaw is bigger than the lower jaw, then an overbite is the result. Conversely, when the lower jaw is bigger, then an underbite results.

Losing baby teeth too early, having accidents, or habits like thumb sucking can cause problems for the jaws. However, they are often inherited, so if you or some other family member once wore braces, then it is likely that your children may also need them.

An orthodontist is the type of dentist who solely works on correcting problems with jaw or teeth alignment. They can make a recommendation and advise on the different options for braces.

Starting treatment early is important, so a visit to the standard dentist is a good idea as they can then refer you on if they feel necessary.

Affording Braces

Having braces helps create lovely smiles, but that’s not all! A good orthodontist work will contribute greatly to your child’s oral health. Straight and aligned teeth can make chewing food that bit easier and would you believe, can also prevent snoring.

Braces are not cheap, with a typical cost around $5,000 and even if you have health insurance, that may not cover much of your cost.

Thankfully, there are a few ways to get braces at a lower cost:

Your dentist and dental societies. Ask your own dentist, as they may provide the service and also be willing to negotiate the cost with you. They may also be a great resource to recommend local orthodontists who may accept lower payment plans.

Note, being a good tooth brusher and using dental floss regularly improve your child’s position.

Your community. You can ask people around your community (local sports clubs, worship place, and academic organizations) to explore if any orthodontists are also members or to see if anyone you know is familiar with a dentist who would be happy to take on your child’s brace case.

State insurance programs. These programs, like Medicaid, may actually cover the cost of braces, especially if your child’s teeth problems are interfering with their speech, eating food, or swallowing at all.

However, please note that some states won’t make this easy. There is a lot of paperwork involved and it might be difficult to find a dentist who actually works with that particular insurance program. It is definitely worth checking.

The perfect bite

It is defiantly worth the perseverance, effort and patience you might need to locate a suitable orthodontist to treat your child at a reasonable cost. Besides the aesthetics, straight teeth can help to keep a healthy mouth for a lifetime.

mother and child

Becoming A Step Parent

2017-02-10 by • Parenting • Tags: , , , •

Step parenting for the first time

Becoming a stepparent could be your golden ticket to having a child of your own, while also doing a good thing for the child’s sake.

On the other side of the stepparent spectrum is perhaps being a parent through marrying your partner who already has children of their own. This can be a very rewarding and fulfilling parenting experience.

You will have the wonderful opportunity to share your life with the child while helping them to shape a character of their own. If you already have children, then you will be offering them more ways to foster positive relationships and establish sibling bonds.

A lot of the time, your new stepchild will get along with other family members just fine but at other times you can be sure to expect some difficulties while growing up. It’s important to establish and agree on your role as a parent, besides your day-to-day responsibilities, so as not to lead to any confusion or conflict between your partner or ex-partner, and their children.

There’s no magic formula to creating a “perfect family’.  Dynamics in the home are unique. So, it is very important to approach your new family situation with patience and empathy for all involved. Here are some points on how to adapting to your new role that bit easier:

Start off slowly

Your initial role as a stepparent is that of being a caring adult in the child’s life. Like a loving member of the family or mentor, you may wish for a closer bond immediately, and wonder what you might be saying or doing wrong in the eyes of your stepchild, if they don’t really warm to you or your maternal children as naturally as you had hoped for but relationships take time to grow and build trust etc.

Starting out slowly and trying not to rush things is a solid approach. Allow things to naturally develop because children can tell when parents are being insincere or doing things in a fake way. As time passes, you will develop a deeper, meaningful relationship with your stepchild.

Some factors affecting your relationship

In cases where a child is mourning a deceased parent or perhaps the divorce of their natural parents, they may need some time to naturally heal before fully accepting you as their new parent.

For children whose birth parents are living, a  new marriage may signal the end of any hope that their own parents will reunite. Even if it was many years since their parents’ separation, children will often hang onto that hope for a long long time. From the child’s perspective, this new reality can make them feel anger, hurt, and frustration.

Preempting is key

By knowing ahead of time which family situations might be at first problematic, as a new stepchild joins the family, existing family members can help you to prepare for that. This way, if conflicts arise, you will know how to deal with them with more patience and grace.

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