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Alternative Carrier Options for Moms

2019-03-19 by • Parenting •

Family Baby Carrier

In today’s world, moms stay very busy. Many even have errands to run within days of getting out of the hospital after delivery. Housekeeping chores never stop, not even because of the arrival of a baby. This means that every mom out there is looking for a helping hand. It is because of this that there are so many alternative carrier options for moms available. There are even a few for dads who want to help.

Baby Carrier Options

Baby CarriersEvery mom and baby is different. Some moms prefer to carry their infant close to their chest where nursing in secret is possible. Others prefer their toddler on their hip or their back. Babies also seem to have a preference. It may depend on what type of activities you will take part in on that day. No matter what type of help you want, carriers are available to you. Here are the different types and the benefits of each one.

Hip-Seat:

The baby hip carrier is becoming one of the most popular choices for active moms. Their infant can sit in a very natural position on their hip, which is much easier on their back. It also allows the infant to sit with their legs spread, ensuring that their tiny bones grow normally. Its recommended that infants be able to hold their head up without help. Many of these carriers can be used from 6-36 months.

Backpack Carrier:

The backpack carrier is ideal for toddlers and busy moms. Often, you will see parents hiking with their toddler on their back. They’re designed with comfort. They are built to distribute your child’s weight over the carrier. There are some that infants can use. Make sure you check the age/weight rating.

Ring Sling:

Ring Sling CarrierThis carrier is very easy for moms to wear. They adjust to accommodate the baby’s size and can be used by moms or dads. They are available in a variety of colors so that you can use it as an accessory. One of the biggest benefits though is how easy they are to use. Moms do not need much practice to put it on and it can work well for breastfeeding moms.

Baby Wrap:

A lot of moms love the variety that comes with a wrap. They are available in a variety of fabrics and promise to keep your baby, and you, comfortable. Wraps fit all newborns, infants, and toddlers. They are also easy to clean since most can washed as often as you want.

Mei Tai/Soft Carriers:

The beauty of this type of carrier is how easy they are to adjust. They offer padding for your comfort and it provides extra support for baby. You do have to make sure that you choose a carrier that is usable by your baby based on their size. Some work with newborns while others are best used by infants that can hold their head up.

Which Will You Choose?

Busy moms deserve a helping hand. You need to find a carrier that makes your life easier. Some of these carriers can be difficult to put on, which can be a downside. Some of them may not be good for a baby of a certain age. Read the reviews and search for the one that will make your life as a mom simpler. You will be glad you did it.

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Mums Can Look Cool Too

2019-02-21 by • Parenting •

Whether you are a new mom or a parent to a teenager, chances are good you have what you casually call, “Your Mommy Style”, especially if you are a stay at home mom who only gets out of the house to run errands. Often, when we picture moms in our mind, we imagine messy ponytails or buns, ragged jeans or leggings, shirt sleeves rolled up, and the baggier the better for all. Why do moms seem to have this image when we all know that mums can look cool, too?

The Mom Style

Mom LifeFor some reason, it often seems as though the minute a woman steps foot in the delivery room, she changes. Trendy fashion statement clothing that she wore pre-pregnancy may be hung up in the closet and forgotten once the baby bump begins to show. They often remain hidden away in the back of that closet for many years before she realizes, “I used to be cool.” It could be because as a new mom, you take on a role of caregiver and forget that you also need to take care of yourself. It could be simply because you have the baby weight that doesn’t go away just because you have your little one. No matter what reason you have for neglecting to be yourself now that you are a mom. You have run out of excuses and you have no reason to keep doing it to yourself.

The New Mom Style

Chaos MomMost moms enjoy having clothes that are versatile, affordable, and stylish. Target, H&M, and several online stores have clothing options that will suit your personal style very well. They have clothing that will suit your new body type, while remaining something that you would have worn pre-children. Most of them are also great, even if it has been several years since you started having kids and your babies are nearly grown. For instance, one very popular new, trendy style for moms is the Thinsulate 3M leather Jacket. It is fashionable, comfortable, and completely adorable. Once you put it on, you will become the woman that every other mom wishes she could be.

You Deserve to Feel Beautiful

Every woman in the world, whether she is a mom or not, deserves to feel good about herself. As a mom, you deserve it even more. You are a woman who is devoted to her family. You are raising little people who will one day grow up to be strong men and women. Working moms have an even tougher job of working hard, then going home to work even harder on chores, food preparations, and errands. With all the responsibilities that you have resting on your shoulders, the one thing you shouldn’t do is neglect or deny the fact that you are a beautiful woman. And for most, the idea of being beautiful and desirable as a woman, as a mom, will make each day with your little one even more enjoyable. You will feel good about you, and that is outstanding and important.

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A Few Essential Tips for First-Time Parents

2017-06-20 by • Parenting • Tags: •

Having a child changes a parent’s life forever. From the moment they’re born until they buy a house, the parents will always be involved. When you first find out that you’re pregnant, it can bring a whole range of emotions from excitement to anxiety. If this is the first child, it’s a completely new experience and if you screw up, things can quickly go awry. You imagine the sleepless nights, becoming a hypochondriac with their health and worrying about how they’ll turn out in the future. All new parents have been through these emotions to start off with. And, from our experience, we’re here to help. This article gives you a few tips for what to do with your newborn baby.

1# Learn as Much as You Can:

This is the most important part of being a new parent in my opinion. The more you read and learn about childrearing, the better you are to deal with unfamiliar situations. Without understanding more about the baby’s needs and development, the only things you have as a reference are your own parents. Or even worse, from TV or popular culture.

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There are lots of books available for new parents on a range of topics from keeping them healthy and active to setting boundaries and punishments. You can also find a number of workshops to give you practical advice from the experts. And with the Internet and everything going digital in the modern world, you can attend some workshops without leaving the comfort of your living room. If you do want to attend a workshop, you first need to do an online event registration to sign up and you can stream the workshop on your computer. This is a great way to interact and get advice from experts if you’re unable to attend the event in person.

2# Know When to Worry and When to Not:

One of the biggest challenges that new parents have is worrying about their baby’s health. Perhaps one day they don’t eat as much as they usually do. Or maybe they’re crying more or spending an unusual amount of time sleeping. When their behaviour deviates from the normal, it can be easy to start to panic and think the worst. Maybe we rush to see the doctor or frantically search online for possible reasons. This isn’t a good thing to do. And again, it links to the point above about educating yourself. You should be confident to know what’s normal and what really needs medical attention.

3# Know Your Limitations:

No one is perfect and no one can manage a newborn child and still doing everything else in their lives. You’re going to need to make sacrifices, which may mean not seeing your friends as often or giving up your new hobby. And at the same time, you should also be aware that you’re not going to get everything right. If you do make a mistake, learn from it and don’t do it again.

Concluding Remarks:

Having a baby for the first time (or anytime) is challenging. The best way to prepare is to read and learn as much as you can. This way you know what’s normal and when to worry. You’ll also be more confident and when you do screw up, don’t stress out, just learn from your mistakes.

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Finding Parenting Difficult? Read This!

2017-04-21 by • Parenting • Tags: , , •

If you are one of many people, find parenting difficult you should find some really in the fact that every parent finds parenting difficult at times. Reading this article might show you how to become a better parent and how to understand all the challenges of parenting.

Why Is Parenting So Daunting Sometimes?

It is true that everything sometimes can be quite daunting. It is because many parents lack education in raising children. It is not something that we consciously learn, yet it is expected all each and every one of us to be somehow amazing parents. It puts a lot of pressure on the parent, and at the same time, it makes parenting exhausting and intimidating.Parenting

Parenting Is Difficult – Yet Rewarding

Keep in mind that even when parenting is difficult, it is also very much rewarding. Parenting can be extremely hard for people in healthy relationships, but it is even more challenging for single parents, especially single mothers. The reward that you will receive comes with a single smile of your child, and it is precious for every parent. Remember that even though at times you find parenting extremely challenging, it is not a job that you can quit, or hit a pause when you get too tired. Your child will need you 24/7 every day for the rest of their lives, and as a parent, you must be aware of that fact before you even plan to have children. That being said, as time goes by your child will grow to be a person that you are proud of, and that is the greatest joy anyone can feel.

Do Not Repeat Your Parents Mistakes

ParentsBecoming a better parent’s decision that you can make consciously. Even if your parents had made parenting mistakes, you do not have to repeat the mistakes. However, what you can do is use them and learn from them. You will also learn to understand some of your parents’ actions as you go through challenging periods of parenting your children. Navigating through crisis and learning how to overcome problems will distinguish you as a great parent, from those who do not excel parenting.

 

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Temperature. Dealing With Your Child’s Fever.

2017-04-10 by • Parenting • Tags: , , •

They are hot and cold. What to do?

So your child may have not seemed themselves for a while, maybe they are sick but you aren’t sure. Taking their temperature is a good way to check for any rise or fall in temperature away from the normal. It might be that your child has a fever.

Do they appear hot but complain about feeling cold? It’s probably a fever. Below are some pointers on fevers and how to deal with them:

What are fevers?

A fever is what happens when the human body’s temperature is raised above the normal level, by an internal “thermostat”. The brain contains this thermostat in a place called the hypothalamus.

This area of the brain knows the correct usual temperature that your body should be at (approximately 98.6°F/37°C), thus sends messages to your body to maintain the temperature.

The majority of people have slight fluctuations in their body temperature as the day goes on: However, usually it’s typically slightly lower in morning times and a little higher then around evening times. This does vary though as children play, run about and exercise throughout the day.

As a response mechanism, in times of infection, an illness, or other causes, the brain will effectively reset the thermostat. So why does it do this? Medical research suggests that turning up the body’s heat is answer to fighting off germs that may be causing an infection and by changing the germs environment, effectively starving them out.

Though it can be a frightening experience when your child has a high temperature, a fever itself causes no real harm and can actually funnily enough, be a good thing for them because it is often the immune system’s way of fighting off infections.

Some symptoms/signs to look out for

If your child is:

  • feeling uncomfortable
  • warm to touch
  • looks flushed
  • is sweaty without exerting much energy

How to deal with fevers

As a start, for careful monitoring and care, keep your child away from childcare or school until their temperature returns to normal for a full day.

Here are some of the ways you can relieve the symptoms of fever:

  1. Give your child plenty of fluids, avoiding
  2. Have them dress in light clothing and cover them over in a light blanket/sheet.
  3. Allow your child to eat what they want
  4. If your child presents symptoms such as vomiting or diarrhea, then you should ask your family doctor if you can give them an electrolyte solution for children (this rehydrates them).
  5. Plenty of rest is important.

Important note: If your infant is below 3 months and they have a temperature of at least 100.4°F (38°C) or greater, then you need to seek medical help.

Prevention is better than cure!

In general, fevers are more or less unavoidable. The important point to note is to try to make your child feel as comfortable and give them as much love and attention as possible until their fever passes. If symptoms persist, then seek medical assistance.

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Sleep. Is Your Child Getting enough?

2017-03-25 by • Parenting • Tags: , , •

Sleep is such an important part of a child’s formative years

Sleeping, or perhaps the lack of sleeping is one of the most widely discussed aspects of baby care. As new parents quickly realize, both the quantity and the quality of their infant’s sleep does affect the well-being of all members of the family.

With that said, sleep challenges won’t necessarily end when your child moves from their crib into a bed. Instead of just crying, it will now be making requests to stay up later or simply just refusing to sleep! Instead of  4 a.m. feeding time, it will be a nightmare waking them or they might be awake looking for water.

So the questions are; how do you get your children to sleep through their crying, wining, and clever tactics to avoid sleep? What if you are awoken during the night? And the important question then; how much sleep is actually enough for your children?

How much sleep is enough?

There is no one size fits all answer to this question. The quantity of sleep required does vary from age to age. There’s no rule as such to say your two year old infant needs a certain amount of hours sleep per night. Children vary, environments vary and there could be a number of reasons that an infant or older child is or isn’t sleeping enough.

Two-year-old Zack might sleep in for eleven hours, while three-year-old Jane might be just as alert the next morning after sleeping for only eight hours.

Sleep is so important to children’s’ well-being. You might think that lack of sleep wouldn’t affect behavior, think again! There is a link between the two but it might no be too obvious, especially to those of you who are new to parenting.

When us adults become tired, we can be irate or just have low energy, but when children get tired and are losing out on sleep, then they can get hyper, disobedient and portray other drastic changes in their behavior.

Below are some examples for younger children, to help you in your own parenting and dealing with sleep issues:

Babies (up to six months old)

The internal clocks of newborns are not yet developed fully. They can sleep up to eighteen hours in a single day, divided equally between the day time and night.

For the first few weeks, it’s important that newborns are woken up every three or four hours until they have a good weight gain. After these initial weeks, it’s ok to let your baby sleep for longer durations (four to fives hours)!

This is because it’s approximately how long a small stomach can go for between each feeding. If your baby gets a good sleep at night, it’s a good idea to nurse or bottle feed them a little more throughout the day time.

The goal

Falling asleep by themselves is the ultimate goal for your baby. They should learn to return to sleep, should they wake during the night.

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Parent’s Guide To Safety Seats For Children

2017-03-15 by • Parenting • Tags: , , , , •

Your child’s first adventure

It’s time to strap your newborn into the car and go off on their first adventure, to the shop, to a friend or somewhere more exotic maybe. Think safety first!

Infant Seats

An infant seat is slightly different to an “infant safety seat” or “child safety seat” for cars. A typical infant seats allows a young baby to sit upright. It’s important to note that, these aren’t designed to protect the infant in untimely event of a collision so they shouldn’t ever be used as a substitute for a car seat!

Although, some of the child safety seats on the market, do also serve as an infant seat.

What to look out for:

The base of the infant seat is supposed to be wider than the actual seat. Any mechanisms for locking should be securely in place. Give a little push down on the seat to ensure that it’s sturdy.

To prevent any movement of the seat on smooth surfaces, the bases should be a non skid surface.

Obviously, any seat belt need to be secure and any fabric needs to be washable.

If there are supporting devices which snap onto the seat’s backing, then make sure that they’re secure enough to avoid them popping out, causing a collapse of the seat.

Safety points:

  • Never, ever put your infant in a seat on top of a table or any other high surface from which they could fall from! Also, don’t put them on top of a washing for example.
  • Fasten the safety belt each time you put your infant into the seat.

Child safety seats for cars

Did you know that there are more children seriously or fatally injured in auto accidents than all other types of accidents? Avoid this catastrophe by getting the correct child safety seat for protection, while traveling in your car.

As mentioned above, don’t ever substitute any infant seat for a actual child safety car seat! A child safety seat is designed to be installed in the back seat and protect the child from injuries in the event of a collision.

What to look out for:

Never buy or accept a seat that’s older than 6 years old or one that looks like it was in a crash before!

Also, check the manufacturer’s “expiry date”. If doubt about the history of the seat, or if it’s looking cracked or showing any wear and tear signs, please don’t use it.

And finally, ensure that it fits your child.

Safety points:

  • It’s recommended to have infants and toddlers under two years old, in a seat facing the rear in the back of the car. (or reach height and weight limits set out by the manufacturer)
  • As soon as your children are ready to move into a seat facing forward, harnessing them in until they are of the maximum height and/or weight for the seat is advisable. As soon as they outgrow this seat, they should be in a booster type of seat until they can safely use the standard car’s safety belt.

Things to remember

Make sure you are not confusing an infant seat with a child safety seat for a car.

Measure your child’s height and weight as they grow up, you may need a bigger seat (booster).

Ensure the seats are fastened in place securely before using.

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First Time Parent? Here’s Some Tips!

2017-03-05 by • Parenting • Tags: , , •

So you are on your journey to bringing a new being into this world and it all seems a little daunting? 

The nine months of pregnancy is nearly over and it’s almost time to pop! In a few days time, you will have been through the labor and delivered your new child into the amazing world outside of the womb. All going to plan you will be set to go home soon and start the next chapter of your life. Don’t panic!

This is usually the time when most new parents are feeling a bit lost or confused, adapting to their new life as a parent and that is perfectly normal as it is a big life change.

There are a few ways to deal with any apprehension or nerves you might be noticing as a first time parent, so if you follow these tips below you will be feeling more confident and positive in your new role as a parent.

Don’t be afraid to seek help after your baby is born

When your new baby is born, it can feel a little hectic and tiresome at times. But you should be open to asking for help. Feel free to ask the experts and mid wives in hospital while you’re there.

Often, hospitals will have specialists for feeding or perhaps consultants who focus on lactation who will be in a position to advise you with the basics of nursing your newborn and/or bottle-feeding. The nurses are there to help you with any questions you might have regarding to burping, holding, changing soiled nappies, and the general care of your new baby.

Friends and relatives

In addition to the medical professionals, your friends and relatives will often be more than willing to help you out so don’t be afraid to ask them or allow them to if they are forthcoming. While you may disagree on certain aspects of new-born parenting, remember that these may have been in your shoes before so don’t fully dismiss their own experience.

Handle with care

Just some of the basics to note:

Washing your hands thoroughly with soap and water or alternatively using a hand sanitizer prior to handling your newborn is important. Because newborns have yet to build up strength in their immune system, they are prone to infections. Also try to make sure that anyone who might handle your baby cleans their hands beforehand.

Head and neck: Be sure to cradle your baby’s head if carrying him/her and support their head if carrying them upright and also when laying them down.

Never shake your newborn baby! Whether it is just playing or in your own frustration, vigorous shaking can cause the baby’s brain to bleed and has known to even cause death! To wake your baby, don’t shake. Maybe tickle their feet or a gentle blow on the side of their should do the trick.

Ensure that your newborn is fastened into the stroller, carrier or your car seat securely. Try to keep any activity that may be too bouncy or rough to a minimum.

Remember: Your baby isn’t ready yet for any rough playing, such as knee jiggles or being lightly thrown up into the air! If you mange to take on board these tips you’ll on your way to a smooth transition to motherhood.

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Braces. Giving Your Kids The Perfect Smile

2017-02-21 by • Parenting • Tags: , , , •

Braces are a great investment early on in your child’s life

Some children look forward to getting braces, as they see them as a milestone closer to those teenage years Others, however, worry that they might look different from the other children and therefore be a victim of bullying, for being “different”.

Whichever way your own child is feeling about the prospect of braces, you may have some queries and concerns about braces yourself. Here are some things to consider before going for braces:

Why do children need braces?

For a number of reasons, children require braces. Overlapping or crooked teeth, too many teeth, or simply a”bad bite” are all common reasons why a child might need them. A malocclusion is the medical/dental term for a difference between the size of both top and bottom jaws, which causes a bad bite. If the upper jaw is bigger than the lower jaw, then an overbite is the result. Conversely, when the lower jaw is bigger, then an underbite results.

Losing baby teeth too early, having accidents, or habits like thumb sucking can cause problems for the jaws. However, they are often inherited, so if you or some other family member once wore braces, then it is likely that your children may also need them.

An orthodontist is the type of dentist who solely works on correcting problems with jaw or teeth alignment. They can make a recommendation and advise on the different options for braces.

Starting treatment early is important, so a visit to the standard dentist is a good idea as they can then refer you on if they feel necessary.

Affording Braces

Having braces helps create lovely smiles, but that’s not all! A good orthodontist work will contribute greatly to your child’s oral health. Straight and aligned teeth can make chewing food that bit easier and would you believe, can also prevent snoring.

Braces are not cheap, with a typical cost around $5,000 and even if you have health insurance, that may not cover much of your cost.

Thankfully, there are a few ways to get braces at a lower cost:

Your dentist and dental societies. Ask your own dentist, as they may provide the service and also be willing to negotiate the cost with you. They may also be a great resource to recommend local orthodontists who may accept lower payment plans.

Note, being a good tooth brusher and using dental floss regularly improve your child’s position.

Your community. You can ask people around your community (local sports clubs, worship place, and academic organizations) to explore if any orthodontists are also members or to see if anyone you know is familiar with a dentist who would be happy to take on your child’s brace case.

State insurance programs. These programs, like Medicaid, may actually cover the cost of braces, especially if your child’s teeth problems are interfering with their speech, eating food, or swallowing at all.

However, please note that some states won’t make this easy. There is a lot of paperwork involved and it might be difficult to find a dentist who actually works with that particular insurance program. It is definitely worth checking.

The perfect bite

It is defiantly worth the perseverance, effort and patience you might need to locate a suitable orthodontist to treat your child at a reasonable cost. Besides the aesthetics, straight teeth can help to keep a healthy mouth for a lifetime.

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Becoming A Step Parent

2017-02-10 by • Parenting • Tags: , , , •

Step parenting for the first time

Becoming a stepparent could be your golden ticket to having a child of your own, while also doing a good thing for the child’s sake.

On the other side of the stepparent spectrum is perhaps being a parent through marrying your partner who already has children of their own. This can be a very rewarding and fulfilling parenting experience.

You will have the wonderful opportunity to share your life with the child while helping them to shape a character of their own. If you already have children, then you will be offering them more ways to foster positive relationships and establish sibling bonds.

A lot of the time, your new stepchild will get along with other family members just fine but at other times you can be sure to expect some difficulties while growing up. It’s important to establish and agree on your role as a parent, besides your day-to-day responsibilities, so as not to lead to any confusion or conflict between your partner or ex-partner, and their children.

There’s no magic formula to creating a “perfect family’.  Dynamics in the home are unique. So, it is very important to approach your new family situation with patience and empathy for all involved. Here are some points on how to adapting to your new role that bit easier:

Start off slowly

Your initial role as a stepparent is that of being a caring adult in the child’s life. Like a loving member of the family or mentor, you may wish for a closer bond immediately, and wonder what you might be saying or doing wrong in the eyes of your stepchild, if they don’t really warm to you or your maternal children as naturally as you had hoped for but relationships take time to grow and build trust etc.

Starting out slowly and trying not to rush things is a solid approach. Allow things to naturally develop because children can tell when parents are being insincere or doing things in a fake way. As time passes, you will develop a deeper, meaningful relationship with your stepchild.

Some factors affecting your relationship

In cases where a child is mourning a deceased parent or perhaps the divorce of their natural parents, they may need some time to naturally heal before fully accepting you as their new parent.

For children whose birth parents are living, a  new marriage may signal the end of any hope that their own parents will reunite. Even if it was many years since their parents’ separation, children will often hang onto that hope for a long long time. From the child’s perspective, this new reality can make them feel anger, hurt, and frustration.

Preempting is key

By knowing ahead of time which family situations might be at first problematic, as a new stepchild joins the family, existing family members can help you to prepare for that. This way, if conflicts arise, you will know how to deal with them with more patience and grace.